Rachel calls in to the hotline today to Talk To Me about her struggles with feeling secure standing alone. After the loss of her husband, she realized she'd never really dealt with abandonment wounds from the past, and is having a really hard time feeling secure in her singleness. How can a person begin to develop that confidence, and even enjoy being alone? Is it wrong to have a desire for a relationship, and how do you know if your desire for connection is healthy or unhealthy? We cover this and more, in today's episode of Talk To Me! Dig deeper by ordering my new book People Skills anywhere books are sold.
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Where is your identity anchored?
In this episode of The High Note, Tauren Wells sits down with Jamie MacDonald and Dwan Hill LIVE from the GMA Dove Awards! In this powerful conversation, they talk about what it means to find your identity in Christ rather than in performance or talents - and how to root your identity as a son and daughter of Christ. It's a reminder that even in disappointment, you are loved, accepted and special to God.
Hello, friend! I sure hope you're doing well today!
Being a Promised Land person does not guarantee you a problem-free life. In fact, it guarantees the opposite. In John 16:33, Jesus says, "In this world, you will have trouble." Knowing that, what do you do? Follow the example of Caleb in Joshua, Chapter 14, and set your mind on a holy cause.
What if the greatest threat to your purpose isn't pressure-but distraction?
In this week's message, "Locked In," Tauren Wells teaches from the life of Paul to remind us that purpose isn't fragile. It doesn't die in hardship-it drifts in distraction. Long before chains appeared, Paul had already decided: none of these things will move me.
Being "locked in" is a holy, intentional choice-living anchored in prayer, conviction, and spiritual discipline before life tries to pull you in a thousand directions. Through powerful biblical examples from Paul, Daniel, and Noah, this message reveals how God often uses limitation not as punishment, but as preservation-and how He can turn chains into platforms and boundaries into launchpads for His purpose.
If you've ever felt confined, stuck, or frustrated by your circumstances, this message will help you see how embracing where God has you can unlock freedom, focus, and impact right where you are.
Scripture References:
Acts 20:22-24
Philippians 1:12-13
Acts 28:30-31
Message Notes: https://linkly.link/2Yc0Y
This week, we're so excited to share something really special: a message Levi gave at one of our Fresh Life pop-up worship nights in Kalispell.
It's a word that's meant a lot to us, and we wanted to bring it here because it speaks so honestly to the tension so many of us feel-how to walk with God through both triumph and sadness.
In this episode, Levi talks about what it looks like to worship God in every season, whether you're holding joy, grief, gratitude, disappointment, or some mix of all of it. It's a meaningful, Scripture-filled reminder that we don't have to be crushed by hard seasons or defined by great ones-we can bring it all to God and find Him faithful in every part of the journey.
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Where is your identity anchored?
In this episode of The High Note, Tauren Wells sits down with Jamie MacDonald and Dwan Hill LIVE from the GMA Dove Awards! In this powerful conversation, they talk about what it means to find your identity in Christ rather than in performance or talents - and how to root your identity as a son and daughter of Christ. It's a reminder that even in disappointment, you are loved, accepted and special to God.
Candace and co‑host Lisa Whittle dive into an honest conversation about the 'nuts and bolts' of body health: skincare, supplements, Botox and fillers, cosmetic surgery, GLP‑1s for weight loss, and how their faith informs each decision. Lisa lays out a practical discernment framework (glory to God vs. self‑glory, holiness, wisdom, Scriptural consistency, and the long obedience of endurance), while Candace shares vulnerably about the pressure of aging on camera and her ongoing wrestle with Botox. They also field a flurry of listener questions about perimenopause and menopause, including Lisa's experience with surgical menopause and low‑dose HRT.
If you want to go deeper, grab the free Whole Body Guide at Candace.com and Lisa's Body & Soul Bible study for a theologically grounded approach to life in your body.
Listener Questions Featured:
Kristen: "I still struggle finding friends in my community. Any advice?"
Jacqueline: "What role should parents play in encouraging modesty in fashion?"
Next step: Download The Whole Body Guide (free) at Candace.com-your companion for Season 11's themes-plus find Lisa's Body & Soul Bible study in the show notes. We're better together!