Hello, my friend. We make mistakes, don't we? We make stupid decisions, some of use more than others. We sin. And God, in his kindness, has given us a tool to deal with it. To resolve the regret or shame left behind by those bad decisions. He has given us confession.
Hello, friend. Thank you for joining me this week. If you've missed some episodes or are just tuning in for the first time, this is a great place to start. We're talking about what happens when grace happens, something I didn't fully understand until I was years into ministry. I pray you understand it today.
What do you do when a long-term friendship suddenly comes to an end? How do you deal with the pain of rejection, misunderstanding, and even abandonment in close relationships - especially when you didn't see it coming. Today on the podcast, Pastor and Author Alex Seeley opens up about a recent rupture of a close friendship that left her feeling misunderstood and abandoned. In our on-air session, we talk about healthy ways vs unhealthy ways to deal with the sudden loss of a friendship, how to know what's yours to own vs. what's not yours to own, and where to go from here. If you've dealt with the loss of a friendship, this episode will be life-giving and encouraging, and it will give you loads of practical next steps as you heal and decide whether or not you can move toward repair. Dig deeper into navigating friendships, triggers, conflict, rupture and repair by ordering my new book People Skills anywhere books are sold.
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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.
Hi, friend. Welcome to the Encouraging Word Podcast. This week's episode brings us to a story you've probably heard; you may even hear it this Holy Week. In John chapter 13, we read about Jesus washing his followers' feet. This passage is often referred to when teaching about service or humility. But it also offers something else very important-how to respond to someone who hurts you.
Circle up! This week on the POGcast, the girls talk about sharing the gospel with the world in our backyard, how we think about the problems that come up in our friendships, and what it means to seek wisdom like silver.
We want to hear your real stories of true friendship! Email us at pointofgracestories@gmail.com and you may even hear it on the podcast!
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Timestamps:
1:41 What's Up: Beach Trips, Sharing the Gospel with Our Neighbors, and Dogs on the Furniture
8:42 Circle of Friends: How We Think About Problems in Our Friendships
16:32 What in the Word: Pocket-Sized Truths, "Seek It Like Silver," and The Book of Proverbs
28:07 Circle Up: Dermaplaner Razors, Manuka Honey Cough Drops, and Pink Fygrip Bags
What do you do when a long-term friendship suddenly comes to an end? How do you deal with the pain of rejection, misunderstanding, and even abandonment in close relationships - especially when you didn't see it coming. Today on the podcast, Pastor and Author Alex Seeley opens up about a recent rupture of a close friendship that left her feeling misunderstood and abandoned. In our on-air session, we talk about healthy ways vs unhealthy ways to deal with the sudden loss of a friendship, how to know what's yours to own vs. what's not yours to own, and where to go from here. If you've dealt with the loss of a friendship, this episode will be life-giving and encouraging, and it will give you loads of practical next steps as you heal and decide whether or not you can move toward repair. Dig deeper into navigating friendships, triggers, conflict, rupture and repair by ordering my new book People Skills anywhere books are sold.
The Debra Fileta Counselors Network:
Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!
DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.
Jacob Coyne-founder of Stay Here-joins Levi and Jennie for an honest, hope-filled conversation about suicide prevention, mental health, and what it looks like to love people like Jesus when they're hurting. This episode goes deep, but it's also packed with practical help and real stories of lives being saved.
You'll hear how Stay Here equips churches, schools, and students to recognize warning signs, start the conversation, and take action-plus why purpose, community, and courage matter more than we think. And if you're listening and you've been battling dark thoughts, please know this: you're seen, you're loved, and help is available. Don't carry it alone-stay here.
Connect with us on social!
Jacob: @jacobcoyne
Stay Here: @stayhereorg
Levi: @levilusko
Jennie: @jennielusko
Fresh Life Church: @freshlife
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Time Stamps
0:00:03 - A heads-up: this conversation goes heavy (and hopeful)
0:01:46 - Why Jacob started Stay Here after devastating losses
0:07:25 - Lifeline bands, 988 access, and taking hope into schools
0:31:15 - Rocket ship vs. home: choosing to build what lasts
0:50:37 - The ACT training in real life: a bridge, a friend, and a saved life
1:01:35 - If you're hurting: speak up, get help, and stay here
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Rebecca and friend Tasha share about parenting, healing from shame, expressing your authentic self, moving truth from your head to your heart. This episode focuses on finding freedom from the past and freedom in who God created us to be.
Tasha Layton is worship leader and former American Idol contestant. She recently released "Boundless" a guided prayer journal, and you can find her on tour at tashalayton.com
Adrienne Camp's new book "As For Me" is available now at LifeWay.com/asforme.
Could your everyday decisions actually be acts of worship?
This week on The High Note, Tauren Wells and Phil Wickham sit down for a real conversation about what it means to live a life of worship...not just sing about it.
They dive into songwriting, creativity, and the tension between creating for ourselves vs. creating for God. This conversation will challenge you to see your gifts in a new way, not just as personal expression, but as an act of obedience, service, and eternal impact.
In this bonus episode, Luke Smallbone sits down with co-director and co-writer of the Unsung Hero movie, Richard Ramsey. They talk about the entire process of creating the movie, what it was like to work alongside Joel Smallbone, and how he saw the miraculous throughout the filming of this story.
Unsung Hero is in theaters nationwide on April 26th. Get more info here: https://tickets.unsunghero.movie/
Get ready for more official Unsung Hero behind-the-scenes episodes! Subscribe now on AccessMore or wherever you listen or watch podcasts so you don't miss an episode!